Kosmo reporting for duty, how is everyone doing today?
Well, I wanted to share some information with you guys on how to get a girls phone number and execute it correctly. I do a whole seminar on Phone Game and building Social Status. But for right now, I wanted to jump start you guys with some tips and techniques that will help you get solid phone numbers that really count and turn these numbers into much more than just getting that girls number and her never picking up the phone.
The first step is you must constantly be giving value. Meaning before you get her phone number, you need to be giving her positive emotions, making her laugh. You need to be teaching her something or showing her a magic trick, it really doesn’t matter what you do, as long as you are giving instead of getting you are heading in the right direction. This is what you must be doing before you get the phone number, most guys ask her questions and all she does is give them information about who she is and what she is doing and this is so awful.
Why? Because she is just talking about herself and it should be the other way round, you should be tellingher why you are a high value male and you should get her used to you giving and giving instead of getting. So when you do Step number 2, it makes sense with what you have been doing.. Okay, ready? The Second Step is you are going to tell her that she is super cool and to take down your number and you will GIVE her your number.
This goes with step number one, you are programming her the correct way, she is getting used to you leading her and she is getting accustomed to learning things from you and finding out new information that she never knew about herself or other things around her. The point is that most guys ask to get the girls number. You do not want to do that guys. There is two things that you are doing incorrect when you ask to get a girls number.
The first thing is you should never ask, you should just tell her what to do, and be very confident and sure of yourself when you make that statement. That will make her feel more comfortable and like it is the normal thing to do. The second mistake is asking to get the girls number.
Why? Because like I just said, she shouldn’t feel like she is giving you anything or doing you a favor, it should seem like you are the one that is doing her a favor and you are giving her a gift by giving her your number. You are very selective about who you give your number to, and you thought that she would be fun to hang out with so you let the girl get your number. That is the mindset that you should have when doing all this.
The next step that I like to do is the most important step I believe, this is what will make the girl feel like their is no secret agenda and that the phone number doesn’t have to mean Sex or an annoying boring phone conversation.
The reason why you will get the girls number is because you have an event to invite her to. That is right guys, your only getting her number because you want to invite her to your party, your bbq, pool party, screening for a film, billiards night, etc. Whatever it is that you will be planning, that is what you will invite her to.
Now listen up because this is very important, it doesn’t really matter about what type of event it is, what matters is that you have an event to invite her to. The phone number just becomes a pathway to the next meeting. That’s all it is! The bounce is actually more important then the phone number to get the girl, and that should be your first goal, but that is a topic for a future article.
Understand? So to be very clear, because most guys do this wrong, trust me I see it all the time when I go out with all my girls. Guys will be hanging out trying to get with the girl at the club, everything is going good. Then the guy says let me get your phone number and we should hang out or something… The girl is thinking, well we are hanging out right now, so what is the purpose of getting my number. She feels like she is giving away money, she feels confused about WHY you really want her number.
SO… What you must do is just tell her step by step why you are doing the things you are doing. After that, I like the girl to really invest and work to get my number. I usually will make her do a couple things to solidify the phone number, I will give her a couple compliance test and see if she jumps through my hoop.
If she does, that I am almost 100 percent sure the phone number will turn into a second meet up and hanging out at other social gatherings together. I will usually tell her to do the following things so she can work to get my number, and if she is willing to work to get my number than she will most likely pick up my calls or answer my texts.
I do this….
A)So get down my number
B)Shoot me a text so I know that it’s you.
C) Actually tell me a secret or something funny.
D) That was pretty funny, I’m gonna text you the secret word for tonight, let me know if you agree.
E) I’m calling this really nerdy girl, she is kind of cute, let me see if she picks up. (wait for her to pick up her phone) Hey, its Kosmo. The hot latino guy that you have a crush on.. I just wanted to get the first akward phone call out of the way, so when you call me tomorrow it’s not weird or anything. So go ahead and lets get all that out of the way… (stay silent and just look at her, usually they start laughing)
F) Now this goes along with the last bullet point, if she doesn’t pick up the call. What I do is, I listen to her voicemail and I leave her a message and in the middle of me talking I will hand the phone over to the girl (which it’s her phone but she doesn’t know that) and tell her to leave a funny message for your friend..
So these are some examples of what I like to do with that last step that I just taught you, which is making her work to get your number and testing her to see if she is willing to jump through your hoops…
So that’s it for now. I think that this is a very important aspect of social dynamics and how to get a phone number when you just meet a girl for the first time at any social gathering… Here is an Example of one of my phone number closes that I did, it ended up in some very interesting activities a couple days later, I will leave it at that.
Example.
Kosmo: So what are you up to, next week? Me and my friends are going out to Kress on Thursday we have a friend that is throwing his album release party at the rooftop, you should come so I can introduce you to a bunch of cool people and teach you some dance moves (Notice I’m coming from a very “giving” place).
Ashley: Sounds cool. I got school during the day and I have some of my friends that were talking about going out.
Kosmo: Here take down my number before I forget, we are also throwing a bbq on Sunday. You gotta eat my burgers they’re the best , oh yeah and I’m learning how to make arroz con pollo from my grandmother, we’ll see how that turns out
Ashley: That’s so cute. Okay, what is your number? And I want to see how good your burgers really are, cause I think I could take you out in a heartbeat.
Kosmo: 233‐333‐2323, I usually don’t give my number out to anyone, so here shoot me a text so I now it’s you. Text me a funny secret about yourself. But for real Ashley, I honestly think you are super cool and you should invite some of your friends to come along and hang out, girls, boys, dogs, cats, doesn’t matter.
Ashley: I’m probably going to bring my cat, my horse, and my goat. Did you get my text?
Kosmo: Very funny! But if you have a goat I will freaking marry you right now, I love goats. Their like dogs but a lot more violent, I love that shit.. I did a movie up north in the middle of nowhere and this goat was following me everywhere I went. The director kept having the production assistants take him back to the ranch, but the goat kept coming back and following me, so we ended up putting him in the movie, true story. Random huh?
Ashley: Very. But I’m kind of a random person. Did you get my text?
Kosmo: damn, where the hell is my phone?
Ashley: In your back pocket?
Kosmo: Ah, yep. How did you know? Did you grab my ass without me knowing it.
Ashley: If I grabed your ass you would know it, just kidding.
Kosmo: Got your text, that’s pretty funny.
Ashley: Well, now it’s your turn.
Kosmo: I’ll text you my middle school nickname, I gotta go to find my friends really quick, but check your phone and if you tell anyone I will have to hurt you.. In a good way. I’ll text you all the info for the parties next weekend and bring your goat!
(I give her a kiss on the cheek, and I roll off and I usually come back and keep talking to her, if I don’t have the time, I will text her a couple more times to get her used to our phone conversations, our interactions.)
Alright guys, I hope you enjoyed this information. I have nothing but confidence that you will use my system to get the girls number and it will get you real results really quick. Enjoy!
Yours Truly, Kosmo.
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